Fashanu’s brother Justin was the first Black player to sell for £1million but his career was marred by homophobia – once being berated by legendary manager Brian Clough.
In 1998 Justin killed himself in a lock-up garage in London’s Shoreditch, when he was just 37 – just eight years after coming out publicly.
John told The Mirror that he once paid his brother £75,000 to keep quiet to save the family embarrassment.
In 1985 the two brothers were on Brighton beach, when they dug a hole on the beach and Justin told his younger brother to lie in it while he piled sand back on top.
Fashanu told The Mirror: ‘He started piling on sand until only my head was poking out. It hurt. I was struggling to breathe. Then he just left me there. When he finally came back I was in tears. He said, ‘Now you know what it feels like to be me every single day.’
John said ‘for the first time’ he was able to understand what his brother had to endure as a gay and black footballer.
He said this experience has made him believe that Qataris could learn more about the LGBT community and that the World Cup should be ‘an opportunity to educate’.
Although the ex-footballer did agree with Foreign Secretary James Cleverly and added that: ‘LGBT people must be able to be who they are, but they must also respect the laws of the country they are guests in.’
Gary Lineker also led a backlash after Foreign Secretary James Cleverly told gay football supporters to be ‘respectful’ of World Cup host Qatar.
As well as homosexual behaviour being illegal, there are strict laws on alcohol, drugs, public intimacy, relationships outside marriage, dress codes and swearing.
Veteran campaigner Peter Tatchell was stopped from staging the first ever LGBT+ protest in the country.
Mr Cleverly said Qatari authorities know they will have to make ‘some compromises’ when football fans from across the globe begin arriving next month.
But he also urged LGBT+ fans to ‘flex and compromise’ in comments that were promptly branded ‘shockingly tone deaf’ by Labour.
Lineker, who is expected to front the BBC’s coverage of the World Cup, queried Mr Cleverly’s remarks.
He posted on Twitter: ‘Whatever you do, don’t do anything gay. Is that the message?
Mr Tatchell, who claimed he was arrested by Qatari authorities after his attempted protest, also hit back at the Foreign Secretary’s comments.
He demanded the Government ‘use its public voice to condemn the appalling human rights abuses’ of the Gulf state.
As well as his comments about gay football supporters, the Foreign Secretary – who was yesterday re-appointed to the role during new Prime Minister Rishi Sunak’s Cabinet reshuffle – took a swipe at Labour leader Sir Keir Starmer.
Sir Keir this week said he would not travel to Qatar for the World Cup, even if England reached the final.
But Mr Cleverly revealed he would go to the Middle East if he’s able to.
‘As Leader of the Opposition, he’s in a lovely position to send messages. I’ve got real work to do,’ the Foreign Secretary said of Sir Keir, during an interview with LBC Radio.