Dear Abby,
I am in love with my best friend, Mitch, who is a father of three girls. He struggles with his finances and needs his brother to handle them for him. Mitch also has ADHD, which makes it hard for him to settle down. We tried dating, but he cheated on me, causing us not to talk for months. We started talking again, and things have been good, even in the bedroom. However, Mitch can be distant and only contacts me when he wants something, like a new 55-inch TV or Xbox. He makes twice as much as me but expects me to pay for everything. Recently, he lied about traveling out of town to see another woman. I believe he is using me, and I don’t know what to do.
In response to “Used in Kentucky,” I would advise her to reconsider her relationship with Mitch. The person she describes is dishonest and taking advantage of her generosity. Continuing to see him, hoping he will change, is only a fantasy. Once she stops giving him money and sex, he will disappear. For her own sake, she needs to end things soon.
I am a man who has been wearing lingerie for several decades. I discovered my love of panties at 17 and later learned about bras and other lingerie. I wear them under my men’s clothing and have gone through periods of love and shame for being an “underdresser.” I have told a few women in my life about this, and the responses have been mixed. My wife is not accepting of it and thinks it’s weird. Recently, I have been buying more lingerie and only wear it at work or when alone. I have found solace in opening up to women at lingerie stores and being accepted.
To “Living in Lingerie,” I would advise him not to expect his wife to become more understanding of his desire to wear lingerie. He has already discussed this with her, and she made her feelings known. If he still feels compelled to continue, he could research groups for cross-dressers in his area and join one.
Sincerely, Abby
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