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He is vehemently opposed.
Motivational author and podcaster Ace Metaphor stated that an ex-lover cannot be considered a “friend” because doing so would be an insult to the present partner.
“You are a motherf—ing liar,” he informed his 1 million TikTok fans.
In a video posted on Monday that has garnered more than 51,000 views, Metaphor explains that your ex-lover is not your “friend” due to the fact that they “done seen you naked” and “done had sex with you.”
“He knew you inside and out, and you’re going to disregard all that history by claiming he’s my friend?” Metaphor requested “No, that’s your ex-husband. Consequently, I disagree with calling exes friends.”
He joked that you should refer to your ex as anything other than a buddy, such as “ex-blessing,” “ex-dick,” and “ex-communication,” because old relationships should be left in the past.
“It’s not fair for your future partner to have to deal with your exes in your new relationships,” said Metaphor. “It’s reasonable for me to assume that when you entered my life, you released this baggage, and that you’re willing to be friends with baggage?”
According to Psychology Today, approximately 40 to 50 percent of people have gotten back together with their exes to attempt the relationship again, indicating that metaphor may be suspect.
However, not all of his TikTok viewers appeared to share his tough relationship attitude.
“If y’all broke up because you were toxic, I’d agree, but if y’all are just better as friends, I don’t see anything wrong with that, especially since y’all aren’t physically attractive to each other,” stated a comment underneath the video.
Someone else commented in, “Not all exes are out to destroy you. Not all exes are baggage.”
One individual remarked that Metaphor’s abrupt advise shows more about him than it does about his critics. “Why do you assume that my present commitment is weaker than previous ones?” they questioned. “I always keep my word. If I’m not, that’s another matter.”
Meanwhile, his fans were pleased to abandon their previous partners.
“Exactly!” echoed one. “My exes are dead to me. They are my history; my current boyfriend is my future. Another was warned, “Period! My ex-girlfriend cheated on me with her ex-girlfriend.
»‘You are motherf—ing lying,’ says life coach of ex-lovers who remain ‘friends.’«